How I Work

I can work either separately or together with singles or couples. Of course, if possible and convenient, my first choice is in person. I also offer coaching with Skype (a wonderful invention that allows us to communicate via computers at no cost to either party, and, if you have a webcam, to see each other as well (a marvelous feature) and/or telephone: This is called skypecoaching or telecoaching. You Skype or call me at a prescheduled time for between ½ hour and one hour. I provide one complimentary discovery session for all perspective new clients to determine on both sides if we have a good fit, and to answer any general questions you may have.

After that, I charge a sliding scale from $100 to $50 per session (depending on your comfort level). I initially require a 4-session commitment, since it takes about 4 sessions to accurately identify a new client’s true priorities and goals. After that, individual sessions may be scheduled. Payment arrangements may be made. Clients may meet with me, but most find Skype (or telephone) to be more efficient (and practical, since most of my clients live outside Woodstock).

I want you to know that we do not bill for any extra time that you need from me. You may want my advice, have a problem, or can’t wait to share a success between our regularly scheduled sessions. Please don’t hesitate to call or email me under any of these circumstances. By entering into a personal coaching relationship with me, you understand that I am on your side and want very much to be helpful to you. Your progress is very important to me.

What else should I know about how your work?

I prefer to set a regular schedule because I believe it will help you to focus your attention on our work together. You will have an opportunity to tell me the days and times that work well for you. I’ll find a regular time that is convenient for all. If a holiday falls on our regular session day, we may move our appointment to a day before of after (this will be by mutual agreement). I’ll work around illness or emergencies, but please understand that missed sessions can’t be made up. If you do need to reschedule an appointment (and it is not because of an emergency or sudden illness), I would appreciate 24 hours notice, and I will do the same for you.

Unless other arrangements are made in advance, full payment in advance is required. I accept cash, personal checks and Paypal.

What can I expect from you, as the coach?

You can expect me to be:

Unconditionally constructive. No matter what happens during our call, you can expect me to say only those things that further your life and your goals. If you are disturbed, I do understand. If you are stuck, I will be patient. If you can’t wait to share a victory, I will celebrate with you. I will not put you in the wrong, criticize you, complain to you, or gossip about you.

Straightforward. Yes, one can be unconditionally constructive and still speak straight. From time to time, I will ask you to begin, end, or modify something. And I will honor your right to refuse.

What do we expect from you, as the client?

I ask that you grant our relationship enough room so that you can reach your goals quickly. What that means is that you be willing to tell me everything you are thinking and feeling and that you’re willing to listen to what I have to say.

I expect clients to be on-time for their sessions, and to have a quiet space where they can be undisturbed during the session so they can concentrate fully.

I may, from time to time, ask you to do some “homework” between sessions that I feel will expedite your achieving success with your goals. I offer you the opportunity to change the assignment to fit your time schedule. Once you agree to the homework, I expect it to be done.

I expect you to honor your payment agreement with us.

About Confidentiality

A coach doesn’t gossip. That means that what you are doing, how you are doing, what you have accomplished, and your personal secrets and confidences are not discussed or hinted at by me to anyone else. From time to time, the person who referred you to me may ask how you are doing. My stock answer: He or she is doing just fine. Period. 
Our client list is confidential. People may know you are working with me, but that information won’t come from me.

Speaking of Referrals . . .

My practice grows by referrals. If you are benefiting from our relationship, I would appreciate your suggesting that appropriate colleagues and friends of yours speak with me.